ASKING is the quickest, easiest, surest way to get what you want.
It usually is the most inexpensive. But it isn't FREE! Successful ASKING has a
price tag.
You have to pay-before, during, or
after-you get whatever you want, even though you get it simply by ASKING. That
is as it should be. Success should not- and does not-consist of going around
begging: "Gimme, . . " gimme, gimme. There are too many people trying
that now- and it isn't getting them anything I Perhaps a few tokens, but that's
all. Let's take a good look at the price tags on GETTING WHATEVER YOU WANT by
the success method of ASKING.
Actually, there are many price tags and
different price tags, but that fact will not confuse you once you learn how to
read the prices on the price tags of success. And that is easy. Obviously, some
ASKING really is no more than expert purchasing. All you do to get the BEST BUY
is to use your skill in ASKING to be sure you always get the best value at the
lowest possible price. But since in actual purchases, the "price"
means “money," we shall not discuss it here--except to emphasize that
perfecting your skill and persistence in ASKING will enable you always to get the
BEST BUYS.
In this chapter let us consider getting
many of the things you want without paying any MONEY at all! The price tags are
there-but they don't have DOLLAR marks! Instead of DOLLAR prices, the price
tags on many of the things you want have such prices as: appreciation,
gratitude, admiration, cooperation and friendship.
You see, other people don't just want
money. Many people don't want or need any more money. But everybody wants and
needs: appreciation, gratitude, admiration, cooperation and friendship. So you
often can pay for many of the things you want with what other people want MORE
THAN MONEY!
And, if you try, you can cultivate and
possess in unlimited abundance: appreciation, gratitude, admiration,
cooperation and friendship with which to pay others for providing you with many
of the things you want and need most. If you ASK a powerful and wealthy person
to help you get what you want-you wouldn't offer to pay in money. You would pay
in admiration of his achievements, appreciation of (in the meaning of holding
in esteem) his accomplishments, sincere gratitude radiant with the warmth of
friendship, and the assurance of your total co operation in any of his
activities where your services might save his valuable time for his more
important endeavors.
If you are genuinely and obviously
sincere, this will get you the help you want-plus valuable goodwill which may
last a lifetime! Even in those cases where you should and do pay with
money-always add an extra bonus payment in appreciation, gratitude, admiration,
cooperation and friendship. This may get you special consideration, service or
other tangible benefits-but always it will get you a bonus of goodwill in
return. And, as you go through life, you will find that you need all of the
goodwill you can accumulate.
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