There is a
"magic" word which will
produce miracles in your life!
This "magic" word is
the secret of getting others to DO what YOU want them to do!
This "magic" word
will enable YOU
to get WHATEVER you want!
Who says so?
The Bible says so.
And the teachings
of ALL of the great
religions are based on the use of this "magic" word.
The entire medical profession uses this "magic" word. Yes,
your own family doctor, ALL medical specialists, ALL mental
specialists; psychiatrists, psychoanalysts and psychotherapists use this "magic" word.
Educators, business leaders,
researchers, scientists, salesmen-ALL
people whose success
depends upon obtaining information or cooperation from
others- use this "magic" word.
Actually, this "magic" word
really isn't magic -but it
produces such miraculous
results that it
seems like magic!
This "magic" word is:
ASK!
Here are some of the things it will do for YOU:
"ASK. . and
every human being
has been trained from childhood to do what he or
she is ASKED to do,"
assures the psychologist.
"ASK . . . and according to the Law of Averages
you'll get enough
'yes' responses to
guarantee your overall success," teaches the sales
manager.
"ASK . . . and people in all walks of
life will come forward and
surrender themselves to
your salvation crusade," preaches the evangelist.
"ASK ... and you'll be
surprised by the number of people who
will be anxious to improve your education," asserts the
educator.
"ASK for the order and
you'll increase the
results of advertising
ten times," states
the experienced advertiser.
"ASK and you won't get blocked by a road under
construction," warns the Automobile
Club.
"ASK and maybe
the girl will
marry you," thinks the man
(or the girl).
"ASK, and prove
you deserve it,
and you'll get that raise in salary," advises the
employment counselor.
"ASK for more" has been the principal basis of the
success of the
union movement since its
very beginning.
"ASK through testing"
is the basis of scientific research and progress.
ASK the expert
and you'll get
expert advice and perhaps even expert training in almost any subject in which
you are interested. If
s just as easy
to ask an expert as it
is to ask a novice-so don't settle
for less
than expert advice.
ASK the news
editor for deserved
publicity and you'll be surprised
how easy it is to get. After all, he's looking for
interesting information to
print in his
paper.
I know because I was president of one of the largest publicity organizations in the
nation. We got millions of dollars worth of
publicity by ASKING for it and
furnishing interesting
material. But we wouldn't have gotten a
penny's worth if we hadn't ASKED.
ASK for a discount. ASK for a better deal. ASK for a "refigured competitive
quotation." You'll be surprised at
how much money you'll save.
ASK more than one seller before
you buy. As president of eight
corporations I have seen our buyers frequently get price quotations varying over 40% on identical specifications.
ASK for the job you want. I once was president of a
large employment agency.
Amazing as it
seems, unemployed people were
either afraid to or didn't know how to
ASK for
jobs for themselves-so they paid us
a big fee to
ASK prospective employers
to give them
the jobs for which
they were obviously qualified. We built the biggest employment agency in our part of the nation
just by ASKING for jobs for people who could more
easily have obtained the same jobs
themselves by ASKING the employers
personally.
ASK strangers impersonal,
pleasant questions while
you are waiting for the elevator or the bus or
any.;. time you are together for
a few minutes with nothing to do. ASK
the stranger what he or she thinks about the weather, the
crowded conditions in which
you find yourselves,
or any general, casual question.
The key is "casual." Don't be aggressive. Don't
cross-examine. Don't be
impertinent.
Don't be offensive. Just
start a pleasant, casual
conversation with a question.
In the first place, it's
a lot more enjoyable
than staring at
each other in
glum silence. And then
it's one of the best ways to start to learn the delightful art of pleasant conversation. Don't miss an opportunity to do
this! It's interesting and it's fun.
ASK important people any
sensible, pertinent question-for
their opinion, for their
advice, for a
favor, for anything
which will enable
you to meet
and know them. Be sure
they remember you and be sure you maintain your contact. Make a list of one hundred of the most important people you want to meet and use this
"ASKING method" to meet them.
Don't you think it will help you be more successful
if you personally know the
one hundred most important people in your city?
ASK yourself, "How
can I
do it better?" (Improve quality.) ASK yourself, "How can I do more?" (In- crease
quantity.) The success
combination in business
is the answer to those two questions. If you don't know
the answers, find someone who
does and ASK him. Keep ASKING until you
get those answers. You must have
them to succeed. Do better-do more!
ASK your doctor. You might prevent a serious illness or an operation.
ASK your dentist. You might prevent a painful toothache at an inconvenient time. You might
save a tooth.
ASK your eye specialist. You might improve or even save your vision.
ASK your lawyer. You might avoid a lawsuit or legal loss. Or you might obtain a legal gain.
ASK your banker or investment counselor. You might prevent a financial loss or make a substantial financial gain.
I have, many
times-by ASKING experts.
ASK your insurance agent about new policies with more benefits and lower rates. Insurance -is
taking on a merchandising
complex to meet
modem competitive conditions.
The deals are
better if you know
where and how to shop for them.
ASK
ASK the best tax
accountant you can
find to prepare your
income tax and other
tax forms. There
are lots of legal ways to
save tax expenses. The taxes you save and the trouble you avoid will easily
offset the expert tax accountant's
fee.
ASK major business
executives how the
top leaders got on top
and how they stay there. They
will tell you
that the top leaders
spend a lot of time ASKING
for facts. There
is no substitute for getting the
facts!
ASK expert opinions about your own plans. Do not announce your plans as though they had
been handed down with
the Ten Commandments. Test
them first by ASKING
people who will judge them impartially
and critically. Polish your plans with other people's ideas.
ASK ! It is
dangerous to travel
in a fog-especially a mental
fog!
ASK for favors. People get a
satisfying sense of pleasure out of
doing favors for
those who ASK for favors courteously and properly-and if you thank them sincerely afterward,
they will be glad
to do other
favors for you later.
Don't make a nuisance of yourself-but do
give others the satisfaction of being helpful.
ASK . . . to
increase your knowledge of people
and places. This
will increase your
familiarity with them. People and places often seem to be
unfriendly when they are merely
unfamiliar.
“ASK," says the
experienced raiser of
funds for charities.
Hundreds of millions of dollars
are contributed to charity
every year because people are ASKED for them.
Only a small
amount would be contributed
unless people were directly
ASKED.
"ASK," says the
Finance Committee of every church
as it ASKS for pledges. ASK is what every preacher does before the offering is taken each Sunday. By ASKING for
pledges and ASKING for
Sunday contributions, hundreds of millions of dollars are freely
donated to maintain the churches
of this nation.
ASK any politician how he gets
votes and he will tell you he ASKS for
them. Watch any political campaign and you'll see the candidates
shaking as many hands as possible and
ASKING for votes.
I could give you hundreds of other examples to prove that ASKING is
unquestionably one of the most important-and the
quickest, easiest, surest-of all
success methods. The very act of
ASKING can, by itself, guarantee that you eventually will be a success!
Why is this so? Why do people-often people who
do not even
know you-tend to
do what you
ASK them to do?
Why do people-often
people who· have no interest
in you
at all-use their time and
sometimes go to a lot of trouble to furnish you information
just because you ASK them
for it?
You will find out WHY
in the next chapter.
In the meantime, start ASKING!
Make ASKING a way of life! You
will find that it pays . . . and pays . . .
and pays . . . and pays!
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